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MetiNews.Com - While the rest of us focused on a pandemic that crept closer to home each day mum Natasha Hill was having to deal with a double family tragedy. Just weeks afte
Breaking News ! While the rest of us focused on a pandemic that crept closer to home each day mum Natasha Hill was having to deal with a double family tragedy. Just weeks after her father died of liver and lung cancer in March her five-month-old son Myles Stokes had become deeply unwell and was rushed to hospital. The child was found to have an aggressive form of leukaemia and would need an emergency blood transfusion and eight months of intensive chemotherapy to save his life. "It's hard to explain how lost and useless you feel in those first few days after diagnosis. You're used to doing everything and knowing everything about your baby and suddenly that's all taken away," said Natasha. In the middle of March Natasha said she found a lump on baby Myles' ribs and, with her husband Jonathon Stokes, took him to hospital to be checked over. He was diagnosed with a cyst and his parents were told to return in a month. But over the weeks that followed the usually happy and contented tot began to change. On the morning of April 20 his parents woke up to find him pale and very lethargic. Worried he'd somehow contracted Covid-19 they rang 111. An ambulance arrived outside the house within three minutes. "I've got to say at that point I wasn't overly worried. I think I was still numb from the shock of losing my dad if I’m honest," admitted Natasha, from Manselton, Swansea. "But when we got to the hospital and saw the doctors rushing to get a line into him – and failing – I did start to get scared. "It wasn’t until the consultant came into the waiting room and asked us to sit down that I really panicked though. It was almost an exact re-run of what had happened with my dad just a few weeks before and at that point I knew it was bad. I just kept saying: 'I can’t do this again, I can't do this again'." Myles Stokes, from Swansea, was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia (ALL) when he was just five months old (Image: Noah's Ark Charity) Myles was taken to the Noah's Ark Children’s Hospital for Wales in Cardiff where a diagnosis of acute lymphoblastic leukemia (ALL) was confirmed. He was given an emergency blood transfusion and the following day was taken down to theatre to insert a Hickman line in preparation for eight months of chemotherapy. It was around this point that the family met Rainbow Ward play specialists Catrin Bayliss and Alison Evans. "Catrin and Alison helped me feel less lost. They started by explaining all the complicated jargon and procedures, taking us through it all step by step using a mannequin doll so we knew what to expect when the chemo started and how it all worked," said Natasha. "They were also there to support me through the emotional stuff too. Because of Covid Jonathon and I haven’t been able to stay together with Myles and we’re not able to have friends and family visit. "We have to take it in turns to be with him which means that practical things like having a shower and getting some food is difficult. But we aren’t there to support each other through the scary and hard times either. "Catrin and Alison have been like family to us through all this, helping us in whatever way needed. I think I would have gone mad without them.” Families like Myles' face months of difficult treatment and, even in normal times, days in hospital feel long. But during Covid-19 hospital life has become even harder. Play specialist Catrin explained: “In normal times parents get support from each other and extended family and there’s always things for children to join in with in the play room to distract them from treatment and brighten their day.
. As play specialists our roles have had to adapt. "We still prepare and support children and parents through treatment and provide developmental play but we now have to take play to the bedside instead and provide much more of the practical and emotional support that these families desperately need." Myles with Noah's Ark Charity play specialist Catrin (Image: Noah's Ark Charity) Over the months of Myles’ treatment Catrin and Alison have used play to counteract some of the harsh side effects of the chemotherapy and help strengthen his weak muscles. It's thanks to them, Natasha said, that Myles eventually learnt to sit up. It's also testament to their support that, as a mum, she got through one of her toughest challenges yet. "For Myles this is the only home he remembers. He started moving, talking, and eating here so in a way it's only fitting that he celebrated his first birthday here too. I just wish that wonderful day hadn't been followed by such a frightening one," Natasha recalled. Towards the end of Myles' eight-month block of chemotherapy – and a day after his first birthday celebrations – Natasha noticed that her son appeared to be holding his breath in his sleep and called the nurse to take a look. Within minutes there were 15 people at Myles’ bedside. His temperature was spiking, his heart rate was rising, and his blood pressure was dropping rapidly. "I stood in the corner of his room shaking as the crash trolley was called and they ran up the corridor with him to PCCU (paediatric critical care unit). I just couldn't understand how he could go from seemingly okay to critically unwell in the space of 10 minutes. I really thought at that point that I was losing him. “When I saw Myles again on PCCU he was sedated and on a ventilator and we were told he'd developed sepsis from an infection in his Hickman line. I had silent tears running down my face when I saw him. But I was in 'mum mode' and I didn’t want him to hear the upset in my voice so I kept it upbeat." Read More Related Articles Read More Related Articles Myles' chemotherapy had to stop while he was stabilised and treated for the infection but he was eventually well enough to return to Rainbow Ward and finish his course. Natasha added: "Once again Catrin and Alison were there to get us back to a sense of normality – or at least our version of that. "They worked around the monitors and sats machines he was attached to, making it possible for him to play again after such a horrible experience. "It was amazing to see him being a happy playful baby again after seeing him wired up and unconscious and a massive relief knowing that we were back in the familiar support system of our little Rainbow Ward family." Finally, after more than eight months in hospital, one-year-old Myles is finally back home in Swansea but will return as a day patient for maintenance chemotherapy for the next 18 months. Natasha said it felt like a dream to be home again but added that the people who pulled her through are never far from her thoughts. Play specialist Catrin said: "Our role in providing support to patient and parent wellbeing is more important than ever. "Our families were already facing the hardest challenges they'd ever had to with their child receiving oncology treatment before this pandemic hit. Covid-19 has brought new limitations to their journey meaning our role has had to adapt to support them further in new ways to continue providing holistic care." The Noah's Ark Charity is running the Big Give Christmas Challenge between December 1 and 8 where people can double any donation they make to the charity. Any money raised from the campaign will go towards funding their play specialist team. For more information go to https://noahsarkcharity.org/
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